Thursday, August 4, 2011

Husband Is Not Evil

So my husband was feeling very attacked here, but that is not the purpose of this site. Also, in case I did not make it totally clear, the plan to make myself look porn star good did not come from Bryan. It was my idea. He never asked me to do this. I did, however, have to share the background that led to my decision and it was because of his actions (or lack thereof) that my depression grew as it did. That is not something that can be disputed.

((So, honey, sorry if that upsets you that I put that out there, but I'm not going to sugarcoat the truth.))

Anyway, Bryan did say that the site makes him seem like such a bad guy because I never mention anything good he does. So to try to be fair I told him I would write a blog and mention some of the good things.

1. He gives me a hug and kiss before he leaves in the morning.
2. He gives me a hug and kiss when he gets home.
3. He works 40 hours a week and does website development from home so I can be a stay-at-home mom. (though sometimes he does spend too much time on the computer)
4. About 98% of the time, he makes dinner.
5. He let me get everything I wanted for the baby, even when I changed my mind a dozen times about what exactly I wanted.
6. He doesn't get mad when I zone out during his work stories.
7. He still loves me even though I became approximately the size of a beached whale and developed more mental issues than I knew I could handle.
8. We share a similar sense of humor.
9. He's been working on being more open and having an adult conversation by using words rather than silence.
10. He married me.
11. He puts up with my dogs even though he's not fond of them.

So that's what I got. When he does nice things, I will try to remember to put them on here so people don't think he's evil incarnate.

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